The History and Magic of Wedding Shower Favors
With the passage of time, wedding shower favors have become an integral part of wedding celebrations. However, little is known about the history behind this custom. How did it start, and why? What is the purpose of wedding shower favors? Here is an attempt to know more about this quaint tradition.
Although there is no clear documentation about wedding celebrations, the first favors of any significance seems to have been presented in weddings of the 16th and 17th centuries. It started with couples in the UK presenting love knots made of ribbons and lace. Wedding shower favors as we know them today are gifts presented by the married couple to guests who attend the wedding. This tradition could have its roots in the French tradition of giving bonboniere, small boxes encrusted with crystal, semi-precious stones and precious metal. These boxes were meant to hold small delicacies and were given at a time when sugared candies were very expensive.
Although at the beginning, wedding shower favors were handed out by the affluent as a mark of extravagance, the custom caught on rapidly. Today, the tradition of giving wedding shower favors was present in many parts of the world in the last few centuries. However, the gifts that were exchanged varied from place to place. For instance, in the Greek tradition, wedding shower favors are mostly sugar coated candies presented to guests. In Italy too, chocolate covered nuts or marzipan fruits are distributed to guests. In Puerto Rico, there is a charming tradition of placing a dressed up doll bride at the head of the table. The doll is then covered with little charms which are distributed as favors to guests. The most popular wedding shower favors in this part of the world include ornately decorated cards with the names of the couple. The Dutch believe in distributing sweet candy covered in tulle to guests who attend the wedding while in Malaysia, ornately decorated, hand-painted eggs are the most common party favors.






